"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what went wrong? (apart from the frequent calling)

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pete101

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i had this HB 2 weeks ago who i made out with several times with on the 1st date, touched her up a bit. tried to fvck close when i got her back to her dorms and pressed the issue a bit too much. (mistake)

anyway i dont know what's going through her head but when i went to call her 4 days later she picked up (good sign) and tried to set up a 2nd date she wouldn't give me a definite time. it was the start of uni so lots of parties to go to etc and wants to find out what her friends are doing 1st before committing.

then that led to a spiral of me calling day after day 3 days consecutively to see if she was free that night (i know big afc error) but that isn't the original reason why she wouldnt give me a def time.

what could the reason be? even if she may think i'm just after one thing it doesn't make sense what's happened.

obviously now i've f'd up by calling too much so it's over. (she's been ignoring my calls the past 2 days even tho i left it about a week since i last called)

i've been advised to on here just cut contact.. is that too late now? and can i just tell her the score via text that i'm not contacting/chasing her anymore and it's in her court, take it or leave it?

or is it better just to not say anything?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alle_Gory

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so you're calling her again, to tell her you're not calling her again.
 
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sprint

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honesty i'm not sure what's wrong with you. you keep making the exact same mistakes over and over again. do you not ever learn?

it doesn't really matter what you do at this point because she has less than zero interest in you. take a hint. she never picked up because she didn't want to talk to you. if you text her and "leave the ball in her court" that would be kinda sad and pathetic on your part. just try and save some remnants of pride, man.
 
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DonGorgon

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God i feel sorry for us men look at how sad this is... while she has many many men calling her offering her this and that... and for every 1 yeas she says 50 no's... so do the math you need to have 50 female options...
 
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