Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What type of woman makes you weak at the knees?

What is your favorite type of girl/woman

  • Petitte and brunette (medium brown/black)

    Votes: 14 22.6%
  • Petitte and light brown/blonde

    Votes: 12 19.4%
  • Petitte and auburn/red head

    Votes: 1 1.6%
  • Average Height and brunette

    Votes: 10 16.1%
  • Average Height and blonde/light brown

    Votes: 6 9.7%
  • Average Height and auburn/red

    Votes: 2 3.2%
  • Tall and brunette

    Votes: 10 16.1%
  • Tall and light brown/blonde

    Votes: 6 9.7%
  • Tall and auburn/red

    Votes: 1 1.6%

  • Total voters
    62

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MicCheck1-2

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Out of the choices, tall and brunette. Something like 5'7 to 5'11-ish.
 

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No type of woman makes me go weak at the knees. I prefer dark hair, but pretty is pretty.
 

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Tall Brunette, with a great smile, tight round juicy ass, nice child bearing hips (hourglass figure),long skinny legs, tan/olive oil complexion, nice large t1ts that you can squeeze and play with them, so firm and soft at the same time and the nipples are so hard and suckulate. When she walks her t1ts just bounce around in her top soo innocently.... I like it when they act so sweet innocent ....

I got to go.....
 

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I'm very attracted to blonds that are between 5'4 and 5'6. If she's got a fit body and D-cups I'm in trouble.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage said:
Tall Brunette, with a great smile, tight round juicy ass, nice child bearing hips (hourglass figure),long skinny legs, tan/olive oil complexion, nice large t1ts that you can squeeze and play with them, so firm and soft at the same time and the nipples are so hard and suckulate. When she walks her t1ts just bounce around in her top soo innocently.... I like it when they act so sweet innocent ....

I got to go.....
Yeah, Good Luck. What you described is a 9 or a 10, which are hard to find unless you live in a big city.
 

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Um ...

Cute girls who have a very pretty face. Nice body, either petite or more curvy, I'm not bothered. Nice eyes and a smile to match. Long hair, of any colour and any style. Not too tall. Have a very feminine voice and are generally happy. I like them to be very talkative, but a little shy.

But I have no specific physical type like the ones in the poll.
 

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Brunette, average height, nice but not too big breasts, azz for days, thick but not flabby, preferably olive/latin complexion.
 

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Not too many poll choices for those of the non-caucasian persuasion...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow!

Just came back from the dentist and saw "my ideal" woman. She helped me with my billing when I left. About 5'2-5'3", medium shoulder length brown hair, fair white flawless skin (little makeup), large round eyes, cute face.

I have to say though, IT IS VERY HARD to drill it into your head that every guy DOES NOT see what you see and that you are not in competition with every guy on the planet.
 

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a BLOND girl with deep blue eyes has the best odds of making me feel very special, especially if she is sweet and nice. Also, her skin has to be very white, the whiter the better and preferably slightly pinky.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Brunettes are killing the competition, who said blondes are the hottest?

My ass they are.....

I bet this poll would be accurate out in the real world as well.

I guess if you want guys to leave your girl alone, get a redhead/auburn woman. Only 7.7% men on here prefer redhead/auburn.

If you are dating a cute petite brunette, she will never be left alone.
 

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I usually prefer the average height brunette. I'm not a fan of blondes.
 
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