"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to say in this situation???

willysquared

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When asking a girl out, I often use the line:

"I'm going (somewhere to do something), would you like to come along?"

And I'd say I get good feedback most of the time, but every once in awhile I get this:

"Who are you going with?"

or

"Are you going by yourself?"

I usually reply:

"Just you and me babe."

I was just wondering if anyone had any other suggestions/feedback on what to say.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by willysquared
When asking a girl out, I often use the line:

"I'm going (somewhere to do something), would you like to come along?"
It's more alpha to make a statement rather than ask a question.

Try:
"I'm going (somewhere to do something). Come with me."

Say it in a friendly tone of voice.
 

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Your age tells me alot, the amount of posts tells me even more.
Why are you using that technique? Where on the Don Juan page does it mention that form of asking a girl out? It sounds immature, pickupline style of asking her out, something a 17 year old would do, Hell, you might get away with that with 15 year old girls, but when you start dating 18 year old girls - their is tried and trusted ways of asking a girl out. I recommend you go read the bible on "How to ask a girl on a date or "How do I ask her out to be my girlfriend" ...you get my drift?
 

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I didn't read that in the bible. In fact I don't copy everything I learn from the bible and use it exactly as it is written. The bible is meant to be a guide, but it is NOT meant to be memorized. I use the bible to sharpen up my game, I don't use it as my game.
 

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You want Don Juan's game or you want willysquared's game?
Enough said.
I never said your way is wrong, but like you said yourself it works "most of the time" not ALL. Don Juan's way works ALL the time. So if you want to be stubborn and continue to be AFC then go for it, my recommendation, drop your ego for 5 minutes, vary your game abit and adapt it more to the bible than your "own" game because girls dont like hidden agenda's or pick up line's(cos that is essentially what your "wud you like 2 come along" is. a Pickup line.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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