"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What to du when a girl is giving you obvious signs??

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This may sound incredibly lame, but what do you do when a girl is openly hitting on you / hinting sexually? E.g like a lot of the posts in this thread.

Waht would be a good position to take up, how to react, what to say, etc? I imagine these conversations happening and I really can't think of anything particularly good to say.
So what I'm asking, fellow DJ's, is how to react when a girl is openly hitting on you?

Or like in that video, with that hot girl trying on bikinis and stuff and telling this guy to help her out, what would be a smart way to react and score in that situation?

I have some vague idea, but as I said, nothing concrete comes to mind.

Thanks, an embarassed DJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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kiss her don't be embarassed. Keep going until you make the ho say no.
 

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No, I meant what to say to set up a private date or move it up a bit, react on what she said.
Kissing seems a bit forward, if it's just something said daringly because she's interested or whatever.
No? :p
 

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bump? anyone else?
 
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