"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to do with this silly women?

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So I've known this girl for ages, for 22 years now (I'm 27, she's 26).

She used to be incredibly shy.

On Facebook, every time she goes on holiday(every 2 months), for example on a holiday for 7 days, everyday she literally puts up 10 images! Half of them including herself in different dresses! So she takes snaps everyday of different clothes she wore for those 7 days.

Also, she also HAS to put up a picture of herself donating blood! She puts a picture of her arm in a needle which says "it's time to donate blood etc". She does this every six months, what's the point of that? A lot of people do good deeds but go on Facebook to talk about it.

Last week, she donated money to charity and guess what, that's right, she had to put up a Facebook post saying "donating money to charity is important, so and so".

Unfortunately, behind my back, I've found out she's been 'putting me down' stating "do I even talk to girls" and "I'm so and so".

So she's created an "ego" of herself on Facebook. I do feel she's a narcissist and badly needs validation and social approval through Facebook (which she has fortunately got now).

She hardly knows me and does not think much of me.

Anyway, I'd love to prove her wrong and I can.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do nothing. Don't waste your time.

You really want to stick it to her? Do things that make you happy and live a happy life. Always be in a good mood and never let her affect you. She will resent you even more. Perfect
 

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Thanks for your replies.

Both of your posts are very true.

I wonder how would she react if Facebook suddenly doesn't exist anymore lol.
 
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Try this. Post a link to this thread on her timeline (or wall or whatever they call it) and say something like:

Hey, you're famous! the whole internet is talking about you:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-to-do-with-this-silly-women.241539/


In fact, you can copy and paste that above and post it directly.

Then she'll follow it here, and see that the FB link is a link to a post with a link to itself within the post which is a never ending loop and maybe her consciousness will get stuck in said never ending loop.

And then she'll realize how clever you are and "like" your post, and then because that "like" will have been created within a ever ending, self-referencing loop, you'll have INFINITE likes, be the most famous person on Facebook, and you can die a happy man.

That'll show her....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I've known this girl for ages, for 22 years now (I'm 27, she's 26).

She used to be incredibly shy.

On Facebook, every time she goes on holiday(every 2 months), for example on a holiday for 7 days, everyday she literally puts up 10 images! Half of them including herself in different dresses! So she takes snaps everyday of different clothes she wore for those 7 days.

Also, she also HAS to put up a picture of herself donating blood! She puts a picture of her arm in a needle which says "it's time to donate blood etc". She does this every six months, what's the point of that? A lot of people do good deeds but go on Facebook to talk about it.

Last week, she donated money to charity and guess what, that's right, she had to put up a Facebook post saying "donating money to charity is important, so and so".

Unfortunately, behind my back, I've found out she's been 'putting me down' stating "do I even talk to girls" and "I'm so and so".

So she's created an "ego" of herself on Facebook. I do feel she's a narcissist and badly needs validation and social approval through Facebook (which she has fortunately got now).

She hardly knows me and does not think much of me.

Anyway, I'd love to prove her wrong and I can.
Philanthropy can be a defense mechanism. When people are ****, they give to charity to feel better about themselves and to look good to the outside world.
 
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