"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to do with myself?

Pathgen

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Ok im in college and the semester is coming to an end. I have to go home for christmas and I am pretty booked up until then. However, I don't have anything to do for 26 days until school starts.

I really don't want to sit at home in my hometown because most my old friends play WoW and it will be boring as hell.

At the same time if I go back up to where I go to college a lot of people I met won't be here and I will be lonely lol.

I have checked to see if I could maybe take classes somewhere, but due to schedule conflicts/prices way to high I don't want to take any classes

So i have come up with these two things to do
1) Stay at home and meet up with my friends when they actually move out of their rooms.
2) Come back up to college and start Job Hunting because i do want a job

So do you have any ideas on what I could maybe do to pass the time? Maybe some places that are good for college kids to work would be appreciated? I just don't want to go back to my unsocial hole and I really want to stay active doing something.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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