"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do with my hands

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Tortendieb

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I seem to be fidgeting a lot with my hands and arms. I just watched a lot of party pics of myself, and i seem to show a lot of awkward poses.

I never noticed until now, actually! The only times I look natural is when I'm pretty drunk :D

Do you ever get the thought "huh where do I put my arms"? How do you get rid of it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WorkingDJ

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Whatever you do, if you're in a picture with a woman, don't do the awkward hands.

Either be a man and put your hands on her, or keep them at your side.
 
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You take a breath, relax your shoulders and calm down. Or you go into stand up mode and get everyone laughing so hard that you are sure no one will really give a ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Watch movies and TV shows of characters who are cool. Examples are Don Draper on Mad Men and Tyler Durden in Fight Club to name a few.
 
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