"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

What to do with douchebag managers at mall stores when trying to game women

Blackdragon5095

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2005
Messages
453
Reaction score
6
Look bro. Forget shortcuts and small tricks. What you need to do luke, is get in the field. Yes smiling dose help in the apporach, however you need to do more. I understand luke that you have fear in apporaching.

If you do start up your apporach jounral luke, I will have no problem in supporting you. However, your best off sticking to dj bible , dyd, mystery method, juggler,and gunwitch. Player Surpeme has good stuff.

My wingman is right. You need to get out more and have fun. Pick up's are much easier when you have fun. Alot of guys are on this fourm for 1 reason. Didn't do enough risk making in life. I know your a 30 old virigin. But dude do you wanna spend the rest of your life on the dj fourm ? Or jacking off to porn ?

If you want help bro you can pm me.

Get in the field man :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

SELF-MASTERY

Banned
Joined
Dec 15, 2004
Messages
1,971
Reaction score
7
I'm experimenting with the bad boy smile.:rolleyes:

I tried smiling at a girl yesterday, but didn't write an approach journal on it as it seemed to trivial. I check out her a$$, she looked at me, and I gave her a dirty smile, but looked back at my mom:( who was sitting opposite to me, and left with my mom.
You need a mentor.
 

The JustMan

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2006
Messages
94
Reaction score
3
Location
Cincinnati, OH
Luke, Blackdragon and I have controlling mothers too. We have been overly sheltered and protected which has led to our late blossoming. Take our advice and get away from your mother for a while. You are a man so go out have fun and enjoy life. If you are having fun than girls will be attracted to you.
 

Reloaded

Banned
Joined
Jul 7, 2006
Messages
105
Reaction score
0
What you do is buy something real cheap, like a pack of gum. Lol.
 
Top