"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what to do with 5K?

warrior1

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I have 5000 dollars that I just leave there if you know what i mean. What do you suggest i do with it to make something out of it? Someone told me that money not used loses to inflation. I am 21 years old and have never done anything with stocks or anything like that. I do have a savings account that pays 0.25 percent interest which is nothing and a checking account.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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seagull

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Put it in an account that pays a decent amount of interest until you figure out what you want to do with the money.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jlr12584

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update your wardrobe within the last 6 months if you havent already... invest in workout products... tanning bed package... anything that helps improve yourself. put the rest into a nice savings account or if ur looking for long term investment go with a mutual fund.
 

bigjohnson

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Hang on to it, if the investing bug is upon you get professional advice, not a bunch of random people sitting in their mothers basement reading Internet forums .....


One thing that's true for a lot of people is that saving or spending is habit forming; I suggest you begin a saving habit now.
 
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