"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do when you're on a date with a very hot girl and....

zekko

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It's kinda weird that 4 dudes are working your girl because who decides which one gets her if she reciprocates? Are the other 3 just there to build up the one guy? Sounds like a sad bunch of fvckers to me.
The four guys could have been competing with each other. Especially if there weren't many available targets in the bar, maybe it was a sausage fest.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Robert28

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The four guys could have been competing with each other. Especially if there weren't many available targets in the bar, maybe it was a sausage fest.
That's just asking for trouble, especially when you drag a pretty girl into a bar full of nothing but dudes.
 

skinnyguy

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Lol yup I ended up holding it for hours cause I knew that when I came back she'd be surrounded by dudes.

Isn't every bar a sausagefest? I'm in California and its really really bad out here.
 
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