"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do when girl asks you for time

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I was waiting for the train the other day and this HB8 came up to me and asked me what time it was. Like an idiot I told her the time and didn't say anything else. What is the best reply in this situation?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well, if she asked for time, could it be that she might be in the hurry somewhere, and might not have time to talk.

but if, she's not; "are we in the hurry somewhere"

that gives you an lead in to the conversation......
 
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or say

"thatal be 50 cents"

and loook at her like ur serious..then obviously let her know ur joking...
 
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if you "sense" she's asking just to initiate a convo go like this:

hb: what time is it?

you: friday

hb: what? i asked you what time is it?????


(assuming she's smiling by now)

you: <c&f> yes i know, that. i was just telling you that friday would be a good day for you and i to get a cup of coffee </c&f>
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd just tell her what time it is. If she sticks around maybe I'll comment on something i've noticed about something in the news, or some clever current event.

Opporutunity is always out there, I definately don't have to hit on every hot girl I see, so i might not even say anything other then just giving her the time.
 
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