"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to do when a girl does this?

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Was tuning a girl at a party last night and going very well, according to her friend she was very keen on me and was a super hot girl, we ended up going to a club and was talking to her and decided to get her away from her friends so I grabbed her and told her to come and dance. Everything was going fine and the. She decided to "test" me make me jealous whatever you wanna call it by dancing with some other guy, immediately I thought Ok then I'll go dance with another girl but due the nature of the clubs it not as easy as that. Long story short I was dancing by myself for a while and then thought oh well Fu.ck her and went back to my friends. But what I'd like to know is what is the rigt thing to do inthis situation?
 

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would have been as assertive with another girl as you were with the girl you were with. You are the man. You want someone to dance with. So go dance with one of the women. That's how clubs are. And if you legit couldn't find someone else to dance with... disappear for a while. Because all you standing there dancing by yourself is doing is making a big statement that you're trying to tell her something. And it's not a positive statement. Remember, she's just one girl out of literally millions of other very desirable girls. Make sure she knows that and it's her objective to impress you, not the other way around.
 
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Hmmm. Good mindset, I eventually did walk away but I agree I probably should have done it sooner. Any other suggestions?
 
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I would work on maintaining the mindset that whatever it is ur doing ur doing for you and not some girl you don't even really know. Easy to say but hard to do. Refrain from doing anything that places or appears to place her on a higher plane than you. Ur the selector so make her prove her worth to you... not the other way around. And if it really is all for you u will be enjoying urself infinitely more. And few things are more attractive than sincere happiness
 
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