"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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rjames407

Don Juan
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Increase attraction.

I managed to get a number from a girl who has been in university lectures with me for about 3 weeks (been friendly/flirted(ish))....finally plucked up the courage! I mentioned how I would be near her home town this weekend and SHE suggested we should meet...but it was in a sort of 'half hearted' way, she seemed almost embarrased!

Wondering if anyone has any ideas for increasing the IL?

Cheers guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WesCottII

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Stop analyising. Meet her.

Be fun, have fun, make a move = success.
 
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