MrJack
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I apologize in advance if this kind of thing has been posted a zillion times but I'm still figuring out this forum.
Anyways I met this girl at my friends beer garden during a town carnival/festival who is pretty much a 10 in my eyes. Fun to be around, funny, and of course very attractive. I talked to her for a bit and both of our friend groups went to another bar later that night.
I got her number at some point during the night and texted her 3-4 days later to hangout the following weekend (this weekend).
She was very responsive and agreed and we ended up going out to the bars again with our friends. Throughout the night I did some kinoing, made her laugh a few times, and just got to know her and her friends a little better.
At the end of the night as we said our goodbyes I did the triangle gazing and went for the makeout with success.
After we left I texted her saying I enjoyed hanging out with her and that we should do it again soon. She said "sounds like a plan
I just finally got home." At this point it's 3am and I texted her a half hour later saying good you got home safe! Then another text immediately saying sweet dreams
I was definitely drunk and this morning when I read that I felt like I came off like I'm trying to be her boyfriend right away which I may just be over thinking but either way I haven't received a text or anything from her today.
My question is should I be the one to keep initiating first contact and should I do it today and invite her to hangout again? Should I play it more laid back and wait until next week/weekend? 4th of July is coming up Tuesday and I'd love if her and her friends came to my buddy's party but it's an hour away from where we live. I guess I was expecting some sort of text or snap from her today but nothing. Is she waiting for me to contact her again? Again I'm somewhat prone to overthinking things but any advice or criticism would be very appreciated and thanks.
Anyways I met this girl at my friends beer garden during a town carnival/festival who is pretty much a 10 in my eyes. Fun to be around, funny, and of course very attractive. I talked to her for a bit and both of our friend groups went to another bar later that night.
I got her number at some point during the night and texted her 3-4 days later to hangout the following weekend (this weekend).
She was very responsive and agreed and we ended up going out to the bars again with our friends. Throughout the night I did some kinoing, made her laugh a few times, and just got to know her and her friends a little better.
At the end of the night as we said our goodbyes I did the triangle gazing and went for the makeout with success.
After we left I texted her saying I enjoyed hanging out with her and that we should do it again soon. She said "sounds like a plan
I just finally got home." At this point it's 3am and I texted her a half hour later saying good you got home safe! Then another text immediately saying sweet dreamsI was definitely drunk and this morning when I read that I felt like I came off like I'm trying to be her boyfriend right away which I may just be over thinking but either way I haven't received a text or anything from her today.
My question is should I be the one to keep initiating first contact and should I do it today and invite her to hangout again? Should I play it more laid back and wait until next week/weekend? 4th of July is coming up Tuesday and I'd love if her and her friends came to my buddy's party but it's an hour away from where we live. I guess I was expecting some sort of text or snap from her today but nothing. Is she waiting for me to contact her again? Again I'm somewhat prone to overthinking things but any advice or criticism would be very appreciated and thanks.
