"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do after i get the number

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Aight so i got this chicks number that wasn't a problem......The problem is what should i say/talk about when i call her? Met her at the mall and kept it short so i couldn't say nothin dumb, but didn't learn much about her so kinda at a lost when i call her.....any help?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OK Do you remember her name?

Most of the time when i talk to a girl that i met at the mall, movie,

etc. i try to be funny and let them know that i really dont care

what they think about me, but dont sound like a nerd! But dont

tell them "hey i dont care what you think about me" to nerdy do it

in a manly way like "josh dont call me a $#$@, dont you know

that i will kill you" lol something like that.

most of the girls i talk to are not shy, so i just let them talk and i

listen (always listen, one girl gave me a pop quiz on what she

said) other girls that are shy, ive found asking them questions

about them, untill i found out what there into.

thats all i can think of.
 

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Well she wasn't shy when i talked to her and i remember her name just we didn't talk long so not real sure how to get a good convo going so she'll be callin me next time.
 

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dude you need to watch Hich with will smith.. teach yea alot!

well dude good luck. if you need help with it any questions post them! latter
 

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I've seen hitch didn't really learn from it....good movie though.

Aight so i called her up talked for about half an hour seemed to go well. Not sure if this would be good or bad, but got her to call me baby after umm 3 days :\ kinda puzzled there....anyways what would be a good place to take her out....Movie/Dinner is to old and lame, no good comedy shows or anything really playing at the theaters around here. Was thinkin something quiet, alone, secluded.....anyone got any ideas?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi,

Well of course the obvious is to call her, then what i would do... is tell her what i would want her to kno....

If you want to get to know her more... tell her that and make plans for the weekend or after school.

Ask her what she enjoys the most then ask her why etc... get the convo going,,..

hope this somewhat helps....


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A good date idea that i use, is going bowling for a hour or 2 and then go pick up a slice somewhere and finally watch a movie. Afterwards, if you do ur $hit right, she'll feel real close 2 u. Especially since of all the kino at the bowling alley. This is good for a late night date.
 
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