What To Do About This?

[amnbyrd]

Ive come across this girl whose very independent and 2 years ago was in a relationship for 4 years and never had sex. Ive hung out with her a few times> Well last night we were hanging out and she let me read this scrap book of poems and stuff shes written and a lot of it is about how she was in love with that guy she was with for 4 years and how she thinks she'll never fall for someone else. A bunch of other stuff in there was things guys have written to her about trying to get her to let her walls down and start a relationship with them. Well like I said shes a very independent girl and seems closed off to anyone trying to get with her as more than friends-so my main concern is how do I get thru to her? How do I not sound like just another one of them guys that she wont let in?

 

[DonGorgon]

Was in a 4 year relationship with no sex = YOU DONT WANT HER

 

[Faded Image]

4 year relationship with no sex = A Damn Lie

 

[slickaz]

either she decommisioned 38997 plastic toys with batteries in em..or shes lieng...OR
maybe she means 4 years no s3x with that guy...but witho ther guys

firstly id say dont go there!! she sounds like a drama queen.

but thats not what you wanna hear is it? so..

id say play it hard to get, dont give attetion, be a **** to everybody.
have ur own life..be independant.
this means she'll know you're a hard dude and you know what you want and get it..ur straight forward..this is when you..
tell her..you dont wanna be her friend..but you dont have time to play around the walls she's built up..you realised that you like something about her and wannafind out what it is..if shes too reclusive to give you a chance then its her loss but if she does open up to you then you'd give it your best shot..

thats honest truth anyway..right?..