"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What SoSuave taught me...

schttrj

Master Don Juan
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my 2 cents...

1) Focus on improving yourself and being the person you desire to be.

2) Do what you want and don't care what others think about you.

Pay attention to these two things and I think we can solve many of the puzzles in our life!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Triple T

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What sosuave has taught me:

1) Be positive...ALWAYS! Everything will become attracted to you like a magnet.
2) Smile
3) Don't grieve over your failures, learn from them.


And many other life skills, but I'd rather not make a huge list.
 
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