"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What should I have done?

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When I was about 19 I had never had a girlfriend or sex. My brother had a girlfriend and she was visiting us in our house. She said without me having talked about this topic to me: "I am sure you will never get a girlfriend". Even my brother said "wow that was harsh".

I was speechless. This girl I put up with because she was his girlfriend, who I let into my house and accept them having sex while I have never had sex, accepted jealousy which of course none of them "seemed to notice" insults me then and there.

Getting a girlfriend has been a lifelong struggle for me, even today I am too dumb to figure that sh.it out and she said that to me. In my house. Without me having been unfriendly or mean to her.

What should I have done?
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who Dares Win

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Tell her that at first she hurt you then you realized that fat girls are prone to throw their negativity toward others instead of themselves so you are not mad at her.

If your brother is fine with her treating you like crap for no reason in your own house he deserve some too, so you can add that even him was complaining about her ass size increasing day after day.

If she is too skinny to be called fat, keep the same frame while using the flat chest instead of the fat.

Bullies are known for being unable to speak second languages, so communicate with them using their own.

And also you seem to have self esteem issues, as a general cure hit the gym, get in shape if you're not and most of all try to avoid any toxic environment like your house when that cvnt comes, or better yet sanitize it
by making her run away.
 
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Great reply.
 

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she is a cvnt , a stuck up b!tch who has never had anyone punch her in the face or trash talk her .
just ignore the hoe, and avoid your bro because he seems like a real piece of crap.(sorry to say that but if he was a real bro he would have had the hoe give u a BJ as apology)

who dares wins is on the money , you got self esteem issues, the gym will solve that.
 
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