In early October, a girl in Italy wrote my online singles add to tell me she'd be in my area for a week in December We are emailing for a month now and we IM on weekends for about an hour I end the conversations Ive managed to project aloofness and unconcern because I started a new job that prevents my availability I've also slowly been getting over a bad breakupSo now, this girl asking me for times times to IM and talk on Skype
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what should I do
- Thread starter tjslove
- Start date