"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What should i do??

PimpC 2k3

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ok, i had a girlfriend lst year and afta like 3 months she dumped me, but durin the relationship, she said she loved me.

Then, last december, she started talkin 2 me again and we got bac together. after a month we broke up again. During this time of goin together also she said she loved me and the reason she dumped me this time was cuz of another boy.

Now recently, i think she trying to get back with me again, and, i know i shouldnt but i want to cuz i still have feelins for her but also i kno i shouldnt cuz of what she's done to me in the past. How do u guys think i should handle this situstion. She was tellin me that she was stupid for what she did and that she made a mistake and stuff like that, but i dunno wat to do, i wanna go bac with her but then i dont cuz of wat she did.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vincent

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First off Love is just a word, you can't express love, you just know its there. Never trust the word.

From what i read this b*tch is just using you for a boyfriend (She dumped you for someone else, then came back to you).

She's not worth your time or energy buddy.

NEXT!
 

high nrg

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this girl isnt worth your time.

i know its hard to take this advice, but i agree with Vincent

NEXT
 

MarcP

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What so she loves you but decides to break up with you for another guy. I suggest you leave it otherwise in 3 years time it will be:

1)Girl dumps you for another guy
2)Guy breaks up with girl
3)Girl comes back to you, says she loves you and what a mistake she made.
4)Girl dumps you for another guy
5)Guy breaks up with her
6)She comes back again saying she loves you and what a mistake she made
7)Repeat steps 1-6 as many times as appropriate

Girls are not stupid. They know what they are doing when they go off with another guy. I bet if you slept with another girl you would hear all **** about it like "How could you do this to me?" and "I don't deserve this" and "What have I ever done to hurt you?" and then if you say "well you run off with other guys" you'll hear the famous "that was differant" line. Do yourself a favour man and leave her unless you get a kick out of being the "base camp" for her to retreat to when things get hard further up the mountain(for example her getting dumped)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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