"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what should i do?

averagechan

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i recently meet this cute girl through skateboarding
she just got started and was falling a lot
while chatting she keeps on telling me about her scars/injuires from falling
i don't know if she is crying for attention or wants to me to comfort her
i told her she is very brave
basically i am having a hard time getting "interesting" coversation and possibly more spending time

how should i approach this?
also i don't want people to think that the scars are result from me beating her lol
i really like this girl and hopefully i'll get a happy ending before i go away on vacation for this month
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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averagechan

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What do want us to tell you? If you need help with something specific, we can guide you, but not with general pickup. Read the DJ bible, and the tips section.

EDIT: how about this one: Ask her out!
 
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