"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what should I do?

eminence

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I'm the manager at my work, and I met one of my buddies through their, me and him are pretty close now...except i'm finding out how much of a piece of **** he is and how bad of a person he is.

We went out on a double date, and his date had to be home...so it was just me, my date, and him hanging out. I walked away for a few seconds and when I come back the girl tells me that he tried to kiss her. I can't get in a fight with the guy...because then i'm risking my job and I look unprofessional...and I can't fire him over personal reasons either, especially since he is a decent employee.

Just not sure what to do in this situation, he pulls stuff like this all the time, and i am really close to beating his ass. i've confronted him about it before, and i'm going to talk to him about it again today...so we'll see how this goes. anyone have other suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KontrollerX

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Just hang out with him in non double date situations or situations where you are not with a girl.

That or just stop being friends with him and keep your relationship strictly business.
 

DjVelvet

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I agree with Kontroller. Don't risk losing you job because of this guy. Just avoid him and keep the relationship strictly work.
 

joekerr31

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stop hanging out with this.
give him the cold shoulder so that he gets the message that you are no longer friends.

why would you hang out or associate with someone like this?

unless you think your girl is lying, if you think thats a possibility then you gotta ask him if he tried to kiss her and find out who is lying.
 
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