what should i do?

[asam]

ok thanks alot for those who helped me on before! now the problem is, is it alright to take some one elses girl friend, if you love or like her way way more than they do? i've asked about this from quite a number of people, but i'm not quite sure what is right and what is wrong. i meant i would hate it if someone steals my gf if i had one, but then again if she's not treated the way she's supposed to and the someone else could, well you can't say much about it! what do you guys reccon? cheers

 

[Phyzzle]

My feelings on going for a girl with a boyfriend, from another thread:

This is why I'm one of the guys who advises people to go after girls with boyfriends. It's generally just freak chance that they're together.

One of the girls who bought me to this site, was a 9+ with a resemblance to Gillian Anderson, but thinner.

She was drama-free, understanding, always polite, yadda yadda. I never dated her or anything. Her bf was a swell guy, not an abusive jerk. But the thing is, she had to work her butt off to support him while working on her Ph.D. in Chemistry (for real). He lived with her, and couldn't get a job, as he didn't have a High School diploma, as he spent his High School years in jail.

They've ALWAYS been together. They're still together now, I don't have to check, because she'd never dump him unless he cheats on her or beats on her, and he's not stupid enough to throw away the treasure that's landed in his lap, pretty much by chance. It wasn't long after, I started seriously asking WTF women want . . .

But wait a minute, is this the chick from the other thread? Your friend stole your phone, and asked her out for you? And she rejected you?

Dude, she's not interested.

 

[asam]

man! this sux, i'm so confused that it's not funny! why on earth is she acting as if she might be interested then?? i was thinking if that txt freaked her out as we kind of just met! (didn't have any contact with her for nearly a year) she never talks about her bf, it's like he doesn't exsist! may be so! to get this over with could some one PLEAAAAAAASE suggest a way to find out what's going on?!! cheers

(btw, it is the same girl i'm talking about!)

 

[chancer]

forget about this one. next time grab your balls and ask her out for yourself. and if you're able to steal her from some other guy then it's likely that someone else will steal her away from you.