Alot of people told me that women hate to lose friends, they just do. Especially to those they've known for years. Here's my situation, my friend she lives half city away goes to a different school than i, her friends say "oh she misses you" So dumb ***** goes and gets a boyfriend, cool congrats to her and the lucky ****, then after a month they break up, months later shes with another. Im just being this............dumb**** who's having a little trouble letting go. so what should I do, just stop talking to her? stop calling her? Dont talk to her for a few months, or what? I sent her messages and she only reads them then she protests that shes busy and all sorts of bs and I'm like whatever happened to her promise saying we'll be best friends forever or some hypocritical bull****, I mean I assume she has other guy friends whom she misses, more likely more than me. To think she once told her friends that I was kind,sweet, senstive, and all other lies. Im assuming here? yeah i am.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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