"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what matters is how you carry yourself.

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if you truly CAN kick ass, make good money, take good care of her (sexually and otherwise) the smart women can SEE that in you. To hell with the dumb ones and the ones who need you to be dressed up, etc. Until you truly HAVE the above abilities, don't count on scoring much, if any decent *****, cause if you do, it will be pure luck and you won't be able to keep her, at least, not without ruining your bank account.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree, forget skills and attitude! That's AFC sh*t. Luck is your best bet, it's why the numbers game work.
 
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