"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Makes A Real Man?

parrot84

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WHAT MAKES A REAL MAN?

Searched the internet and not a lot of info out there !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MisterMcGee

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being above bs and keeping his mind in check (not being swayed by tides and such).
 

MENtality

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A man values the importance of his opinion. He then contemplates every option available, from every source, and then makes his decision.

That man then has the confidence to stand behind that decision.
 

Hughman

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Pook's stuff in the DJ Bible explains it all quite nicely.

Get some balls, get some attitude+personality, learn when to stand up for yourself/your values/opinions etc, and to feel no unnecessary fear (that is say, fear of socializing, fear of women etc)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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