"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What MADE ME approach even though i've never....

Malachi

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ok i NEVER approach girls outta fear, yeah i'm not afraid to say it.
Aswell as the fact i can't carry a conversation with them atall.

But that went outa the window last night, even though i still couldn't talk very well,made silly mistakes and sounded dumb....but ATLEAST I APPROACHED.

here's what made ME approach....I said to myself

"Richard,what's it gonna take to get your ass to approach, instead of being a loser bar fly?"

then it hit me like a ton of bricks....it's soooo simple to MAKE ME approach...MONEY!!.

So i started this new game up with my brother where we both put £10 into a box or whatever at the start of the night before we go out.
Now in order to get MY £10 back, ASWELL as get my bro's £10 he put in i would NEED to approach atleast 5 girls (yeah starts off low untill i get better)
or else the money would stay in the box untill the following week where i would have to put another £10 in aswell as my bro taking it up to £40.

basically the idea is,you approach, or your gonna lose YOUR MONEY...now i approached 2 girls which means it's in there for next time me and my bro go out aswell as his money.

So all i have to do is force myself to approach 5 girls and i win £40.

the theory behind this is you LOSE MONEY and also you can GAIN MONEY if you can approach...it kinda get's you more focused.
Well it worked for me...only 2 but that's more than 0 which i've done in 10 years.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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reyalp

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just like when i'm playing pool......i play like CRAP until there's a bet going.

and then i get 10x better.
 

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I used to do something like that too.

Great that you're approaching! Soon enough it'll come to you as second nature.

I approached a 6 set last night! Just my little brag as Ive started approaching recently too and it feels great! :)
 

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Originally posted by silverwex
I used to do something like that too.

Great that you're approaching! Soon enough it'll come to you as second nature.

I approached a 6 set last night! Just my little brag as Ive started approaching recently too and it feels great! :)
OMG....6

I have trouble with 2 atm lol.
 
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