I had a bit of a run in with a so called friend earlier today, and it's caused me to realize many of my flaws. As hard as I tried to keep our friendship, I wasn't going to let myself get walked on anymore. That's the moment that I realized that a man, or DJ knows when to walk away. A man knows that he's right, and doesn't have to prove his point, or make himself clear. A man's presence does that for him.
You know, there are many people out in this great big world that are classified in the "M" or, "Male" category, but really, that's all they are. They have the chromosomes, the DNA, the instinct, but they choose not to listen to it. They surpress it because they're afraid of themselves, and what they're capable of accomplishing. Up until now I was seeking so desperately the key to becoming a man, but unlike a puzzle, us males already have both the lock and key. Like being a DJ, being a man is a mindset. I've always wondered what a man was exactly, and I always thought he was someone who protected what he loves at all cost, but today I've realized that this isn't the case. To protect something you cherish you have to take it. If you ever want a gf, a wife, a daughter, a son, and a family of your own, you're going to have to free fall from what you fear the most. If you never take a chance, or a gamble then you'll never get the girl.
While some of us are here at sosuave to get 'laid,' others might be looking for a little more purpose to their life. Some might of already known their purpose, but were too afraid to pursue their gifts. I'm only 16, and my childhood is gone in a couple year. I've spent so much time trying to be the best that I forgot that I never can be the best. My best is no better than someone elses. What I should have been striving all along for was my best. I've lost friends, missed out on memories, said things I may live my life begging God forgiveness for, but those obstacles have made me stronger. To have something to cherish, whether that be memories, a relationship, friendship, a family, etc. I'm going to have to be willing to take the gamble and go against all of the fears programmed into the back of my head.
"Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny." Now read this quote and tell me what exactly is your destiny? We all have one whether we believe it or not, and we all get to choose if we want the one given to us or not. I believe we were all put here on this planet to accomplish something only we could do. We're all unique, but what is it about a man that makes him different? What is it about him that you're capable of being, but are too afraid to become?
I'm sorry if this post is too long, or too hard to read. It's 4AM where I'm at and I would say I'm in an emotional state at the moment. I hope this thread helps whoever takes their time to read it, and again, goodbye.
Sincerely,
Jokerlsk
You know, there are many people out in this great big world that are classified in the "M" or, "Male" category, but really, that's all they are. They have the chromosomes, the DNA, the instinct, but they choose not to listen to it. They surpress it because they're afraid of themselves, and what they're capable of accomplishing. Up until now I was seeking so desperately the key to becoming a man, but unlike a puzzle, us males already have both the lock and key. Like being a DJ, being a man is a mindset. I've always wondered what a man was exactly, and I always thought he was someone who protected what he loves at all cost, but today I've realized that this isn't the case. To protect something you cherish you have to take it. If you ever want a gf, a wife, a daughter, a son, and a family of your own, you're going to have to free fall from what you fear the most. If you never take a chance, or a gamble then you'll never get the girl.
While some of us are here at sosuave to get 'laid,' others might be looking for a little more purpose to their life. Some might of already known their purpose, but were too afraid to pursue their gifts. I'm only 16, and my childhood is gone in a couple year. I've spent so much time trying to be the best that I forgot that I never can be the best. My best is no better than someone elses. What I should have been striving all along for was my best. I've lost friends, missed out on memories, said things I may live my life begging God forgiveness for, but those obstacles have made me stronger. To have something to cherish, whether that be memories, a relationship, friendship, a family, etc. I'm going to have to be willing to take the gamble and go against all of the fears programmed into the back of my head.
"Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny." Now read this quote and tell me what exactly is your destiny? We all have one whether we believe it or not, and we all get to choose if we want the one given to us or not. I believe we were all put here on this planet to accomplish something only we could do. We're all unique, but what is it about a man that makes him different? What is it about him that you're capable of being, but are too afraid to become?
I'm sorry if this post is too long, or too hard to read. It's 4AM where I'm at and I would say I'm in an emotional state at the moment. I hope this thread helps whoever takes their time to read it, and again, goodbye.
Sincerely,
Jokerlsk