"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What it takes to make the one last necessary step to move from getting 6s to 7s?

Who Dares Win

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Here the situation pretty simple, I can easily get 6s both as fvck buddies and as long terms if I want...but when it comes of 7s I can get dates and making out sessions even the same night at the club but no more than that.

What the hell is not working, I mean if it was a simple matter of look I dont think it would make so much difference between girls which rank varies of a single point.

The even stranger thing is that I happen to get luck with 8s and 9s once in while from which I obtain the same I got from 7s, I dont expect 9s to open their legs to me the same night but I dont see why 7s should not be available giving a little more work from me than on 6s.
I made out and sucked boobs of engaged 8s-9s the same night at the club but didnt manage to go any further later.

I got 6s on ONS commonly, doing with them dirty things and not put too much work behind it.

Again I get 6s pretty easily but 7s nothing stable even with some work behind it, any opinion or better yet anyone can relate?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Focus on 10's. Why shouldn't you be able to pull 10's? That's right, there's no goddamn reason! It's all in your head. The 7 is not the prize my friend...YOU are the prize.
 

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I agree with BadNews. Why 7's? 10's only and if you wind up with a 9, we won't be too judgmental. lol
 

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There are no 10s, 10s is the condition in which a 9 girl find herself after gym with professional make up, cleopatra and elen of troy were examples.

I fix at 7 because its the one which value most in the cost/benefit ratio, 9s-8s are high maintenance and usually have crappy personalities, 7s are no easy way but still deals can be find.

I believe given the right circumstances I could get a 8 but would have to sleep in an eye open which I dont need it now that Im improving myself.

Also there is a balance despite what game theorists tell you, if you are yourself a 7 you cannot get and keep 9s, no amount of game will make you taller or richer nor will avoid her friends to constantly c0ck block you and instill doubts on her.

Im working on myself, moved from 5 to 7, will be an 8 really soon so Ill up by aim but its not the case in this moment.
Now I want a reasonable looking girl which doesnt complicate my life while Im upgrading myself, plain and simple.
 
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