"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What is your idea of an LTR quality woman?

Masculinity

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Many of us became DJs to have options and have fun with women. Now, aside from the sex and interesting stories, what qualities does a woman does a woman have to have to be worthy of an LTR in your eyes? I think we focus on BPDs and the bad women out there, but if a "good girl" came into your life, would you recognize her? I'm not saying you should treat her any different. I am asking what you all look for in a woman.

In other words, what does success with women mean for you? And what attributes in a woman would make you want to keep her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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piranha45

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Complete and utter submission. Submissive to the point where I can cavort with others, maybe even keep a small harem if my budget allows it, and expect no offense taken. Submissive to the point where I can pimp her out to appreciated guests, if I so please.

I don't want a gf, a wife, or fwb. I want slavegirl(s).

If sex-androids become developed to an appreciable extent in my lifetime, I will have no use for real women.

That's it.
 
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For me compatibility is the most important thing. If you are going to be with a woman long term you need to have that quailty. When I am spinning plates I do not care about that because it does not matter. Any woman with obvious red flags or a bad rep you know of should be disqualified. Any cheating or stuff like that is automatically out. If you do not disqualify those women it is highly likely it will happen in your relationship. Screening is important to find that stuff out. Drunks, druggies, financial problems, no jobs, emotionally damaged women are out too. It is a woman that you enjoy being around and can have fun with who adds value to your life is a woman who is worthy of a long term relationship.

Some clowns will shame you and call you a beta saying you are in submission or dumb sh1t like that for being in a relationship. Those guys hate the fact women are not even interested in them for relationships. So they rant and rave bashing relationships because they are angry they can not be in one. They shame what they can not have wanting others to be as miserable as them. Nothing wrong having a great beautiful woman as your girlfriend or wife. You would have to be gay to not even want that. I just do not get some people who bash successful men in anger over what they can not get.
 
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