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What is your definition of a slut?

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Now most guys would say that a girl who's had sex with a man is a slut. But that's pretty blue pill to me now and I no longer believe that anymore. Why? Because everyone likes sex. It feels good. To both parties. I've relaxed what I would consider to categorize a girl as a slut since then, especially since most ****able girls aren't virgins anyway haha. Especially because when women think that you aren't judgmental, they are much more likely to trust you and be willing to have sex with you too. So what would make you consider a girl to be a slut?
 
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Now most guys would say that a girl who's had sex with a man is a slut. But that's pretty blue pill to me now and I no longer believe that anymore. Why? Because everyone likes sex. It feels good. To both parties. I've relaxed what I would consider to categorize a girl as a slut since then, especially since most ****able girls aren't virgins anyway haha. So what would make you consider a girl to be a slut?
Would a female fvcking through a group of men be a slvt?
 

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Im asking you guys for your responses, not mine lol
Ok. A female that can be passed around through a group and fvck multiple guys is considered a slvt. A female that can have multiple dates in the same week and screw multiple men in that week is a slvt.

Some word must describe promiscuity, and that word for a female is slvt.
 

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Ok. A female that can be passed around through a group and fvck multiple guys is considered a slvt. A female that can have multiple dates in the same week and screw multiple men in that week is a slvt.

Some word must describe promiscuity, and that word for a female is slvt.
The type that would give me a panic attack when you realize you have no standards if you deal with such a woman.
 

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I'm going to chime in and say a female who believes that the way to a man's heart, or a relationship, starts with quick sex.

It seems to me that a female who gets pumped and dumped one, two, three times should really step back and self assess how she "opens" with men.

If she doesn't step back to self assess, if the pump and dumps don't phase her, or if she's always cool with quick sex, to me that says slut.

But to each his own. I'm not going to judge a female for using her sexuality to get a man. I'm not even bothered if the man she snags was someone I might have been interested in. To me the behavior speaks volumes about both of them.
 

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Any woman who's had a threesome or orgy.

Also, if the girl is 20-25, if more than 5-10 partners I am disgusted. 10 is really pushing it. If older than 25, any girl who has had more than 10 guys.

I can understand that the days of expecting to date a girl in her 20's who has had fewer than 10 partners is exceedingly rare, but it does happen sometimes.
I'm now starting to look at the market of "nerd" women as unrefined and untapped OIL WELLS. Whereas the high traffic slvts have been PUMPED DRY, nothing to offer.
 
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Any woman who's had a threesome or orgy.

Also, if the girl is 20-25, if more than 5-10 partners I am disgusted. 10 is really pushing it. If older than 25, any girl who has had more than 10 guys.

I can understand that the days of expecting to date a girl in her 20's who has had fewer than 10 partners is exceedingly rare, but it does happen sometimes.
I think every girl exceeds those numbers in this day and age.
 

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Whatever the definition is, what does it matter? You all want innocent sweet virgins who have never had a man touch them and kiss them?

I know virgins who have gotten married, killed their husbands, cashed out millions, lied to the police, played the victim, and are laughing now with their new boyfriends.

I know sluts who had made the best girlfriends and wives and mothers.

Labels don't determine character or personality. Sluts can be way more logical and practical than virgins.
 

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Whatever the definition is, what does it matter? You all want innocent sweet virgins who have never had a man touch them and kiss them?

I know virgins who have gotten married, killed their husbands, cashed out millions, lied to the police, played the victim, and are laughing now with their new boyfriends.

I know sluts who had made the best girlfriends and wives and mothers.

Labels don't determine character or personality. Sluts can be way more logical and practical than virgins.
You know, those are the exception. Not the norm. You'll likely find sluts doing what you stated that some virgins have done, and also you're much more likely to see virgins who've done what you said sluts do.
 

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Also, if the girl is 20-25, if more than 5-10 partners I am disgusted.
If she's been with 100 I guess that would cause a nervous breakdown if you are disgusted with 10. Now I can see why I got a nervous break-down, which is just a few steps above disgusted. It's like a scale. You are disgusted because there is a soul-tie and everyone she's slept with is trashed on you when you deal with her and it messes with your head?
 

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A woman with no standards when it comes to who she will have sex with.
 

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imo a slvt is a woman who has sex with guys she doesn't care about. one of the differences between men and women is that generally, men are all about banging slvts and women are all about banging their boyfriend (the guy they like most), a chick who goes around banging guys she doesn't care about is pretty much the opposite of what you'd want from a woman who was anything other than a casual fling

now, if she's banged 20 guys before me, and I'm 21, but she actually likes me (aka not going to treat you like you're just one of her 5 boyfriends or just a toy for when she's bored), then I don't really think she's a slvt

I knew a slvt who hadn't even had sex with all that many guys(but still several), because she would bounce from guy to guy, finding a new one while she was still with the old one because she got bored, even if the new one she wanted was the best friend of the old one but then she didn't care about any of those guys and was a huge attention wh0re (she went through like half a dozen guys in a year)
 

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My definition of slvt? A word used by a frustrated man to describe a woman who is not attracted to him.

Any woman who's had a threesome or orgy.

Also, if the girl is 20-25, if more than 5-10 partners I am disgusted. 10 is really pushing it. If older than 25, any girl who has had more than 10 guys.

I can understand that the days of expecting to date a girl in her 20's who has had fewer than 10 partners is exceedingly rare, but it does happen sometimes.
See you in church.
 
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imo a slvt is a woman who has sex with guys she doesn't care about. one of the differences between men and women is that generally, men are all about banging slvts and women are all about banging their boyfriend (the guy they like most), a chick who goes around banging guys she doesn't care about is pretty much the opposite of what you'd want from a woman who was anything other than a casual fling

now, if she's banged 20 guys before me, and I'm 21, but she actually likes me (aka not going to treat you like you're just one of her 5 boyfriends or just a toy for when she's bored), then I don't really think she's a slvt

I knew a slvt who hadn't even had sex with all that many guys(but still several), because she would bounce from guy to guy, finding a new one while she was still with the old one because she got bored, even if the new one she wanted was the best friend of the old one but then she didn't care about any of those guys and was a huge attention wh0re (she went through like half a dozen guys in a year)
This ideology is actually very similar to mine.
 

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It's a relative term, and remember that women change as they get older.

I would define it in terms of how many men she has been with since she started dating you.
 

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