We are like souls put into human bodies to experience life. We try to make decisions, while free will, logically speaking, seems to be an illusion. We get attached to the decisions we make. When in a moment of impulsivity or neglect, we make a decision that doesn't get us the results we want, we get hurt.
You open up your heart, you get damaged. You try to distance yourself from it all.
Say buddha was right: we become reborn endlessly suffering until we reach nirvana, our souls escape the cycle. Disregarding the reincarnation, consider his statement that life is suffering: is this really true? Are there not individuals that don't experience suffering on this planet?
I envy people sometimes. But I don't see it as a bad thing. Envy, to me, is just a sign that there is room for improvement for me.
Now I would like money. I want intelligence. I want emotional stability. I want confidence. I want outcome independence. And I want love.
I am still young. I'm not an old man. I did almost die a month ago though, so I can sort of consider that one must be careful with the time one is dealt on earth. I also realise though that it's important to enjoy life while we have it.
So the key, it seems to me, is that we should strive to better ourselves. We should take risks. We should live to die another day. And we should liveto have something to offer - not only yourself, not only to women, but to men around as well. The true key is the elevation of the living experiences we all have through the sharing of values, knowledge and experience. The catch here is that in order to be able to share value, knowledge and experience, one must first gain these things. And everyone has a different combination of these to share.
I was living my life somehow closed off to other people. Focussing on myself. My life had become stagnant. My values had become old, withered away. Not pristine or polished. They weren't even identifiable. There was no trust in the universe, no acceptance of whatever fate may bring.
My knowledge was also not sharply defined. I hadn't read a good book or thought deeply about life in a long time. I was not inspired. I had become opaque. The innate wisdom I had cultivated throughout the years had become unused. I had become unfamiliar with the things I had known to be true from the beginning. What I refer to is for example the fact we are born onto this planet, and just as quickly we will disappear again from this planet. Straight back to where we came from before our births.
Experience is a tool through which we gain all the aforementioned things. Intelligence (through reading), emotional stability (through selfreflection and meditation), confidence (through acheiving goals), outcome independence (through loss).
Experiencing all these things gives us the power to help other people. Through getting these skills we learn to relate to other people. We feel empathy of other people. We can actually allow other people to feel understood and we feel understood ourselves.
These are all good things which cannot be bad for life and must bring about positive effects.
When we have knowledge and values which we can teach for people to avoid their own suffering, for us to guide our own ships, and to steer the ship in the right way during a relationship, we can be outcome independent.
It is important to be selfless when it comes to so many things in life. And this is the apparent paradox when it comes to game.
We are doing so many of these things, because we want a female, for selfish reasons. It's not for the female that we do these things. It's for ourselves. Even if it's to make children for the world, for the continuation of your race, this is just some abstract excuse as to why a female is supposed to make you happy - satisfy your insecurities.
So how do we solve this paradox? Live a benevolent life with the knowledge that one day the planet will no longer exist? Will the universe one day cease to exist? Will the human race end? Why do we do what we do?
Let's hear your explanations. I'll think about these things and elaborate my point of view eventually. If you guys consider seriously, ponder and respond wisely, this should make for an interesting discussion.
You open up your heart, you get damaged. You try to distance yourself from it all.
Say buddha was right: we become reborn endlessly suffering until we reach nirvana, our souls escape the cycle. Disregarding the reincarnation, consider his statement that life is suffering: is this really true? Are there not individuals that don't experience suffering on this planet?
I envy people sometimes. But I don't see it as a bad thing. Envy, to me, is just a sign that there is room for improvement for me.
Now I would like money. I want intelligence. I want emotional stability. I want confidence. I want outcome independence. And I want love.
I am still young. I'm not an old man. I did almost die a month ago though, so I can sort of consider that one must be careful with the time one is dealt on earth. I also realise though that it's important to enjoy life while we have it.
So the key, it seems to me, is that we should strive to better ourselves. We should take risks. We should live to die another day. And we should liveto have something to offer - not only yourself, not only to women, but to men around as well. The true key is the elevation of the living experiences we all have through the sharing of values, knowledge and experience. The catch here is that in order to be able to share value, knowledge and experience, one must first gain these things. And everyone has a different combination of these to share.
I was living my life somehow closed off to other people. Focussing on myself. My life had become stagnant. My values had become old, withered away. Not pristine or polished. They weren't even identifiable. There was no trust in the universe, no acceptance of whatever fate may bring.
My knowledge was also not sharply defined. I hadn't read a good book or thought deeply about life in a long time. I was not inspired. I had become opaque. The innate wisdom I had cultivated throughout the years had become unused. I had become unfamiliar with the things I had known to be true from the beginning. What I refer to is for example the fact we are born onto this planet, and just as quickly we will disappear again from this planet. Straight back to where we came from before our births.
Experience is a tool through which we gain all the aforementioned things. Intelligence (through reading), emotional stability (through selfreflection and meditation), confidence (through acheiving goals), outcome independence (through loss).
Experiencing all these things gives us the power to help other people. Through getting these skills we learn to relate to other people. We feel empathy of other people. We can actually allow other people to feel understood and we feel understood ourselves.
These are all good things which cannot be bad for life and must bring about positive effects.
When we have knowledge and values which we can teach for people to avoid their own suffering, for us to guide our own ships, and to steer the ship in the right way during a relationship, we can be outcome independent.
It is important to be selfless when it comes to so many things in life. And this is the apparent paradox when it comes to game.
We are doing so many of these things, because we want a female, for selfish reasons. It's not for the female that we do these things. It's for ourselves. Even if it's to make children for the world, for the continuation of your race, this is just some abstract excuse as to why a female is supposed to make you happy - satisfy your insecurities.
So how do we solve this paradox? Live a benevolent life with the knowledge that one day the planet will no longer exist? Will the universe one day cease to exist? Will the human race end? Why do we do what we do?
Let's hear your explanations. I'll think about these things and elaborate my point of view eventually. If you guys consider seriously, ponder and respond wisely, this should make for an interesting discussion.
