"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What is the right monent to talk

victor22

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Hi Folks
My question is divided in to two parts

If you see a girl(Target) who is in a coffee shop already sitting and you just entered, how much time one should take to go and talk to her???


If a girl(Target) walks in to a coffee shop were you were already sitting, how much time one should take to go and talk to her???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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xomel

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AFTER: you decide that you should go talk to her
BEFORE: you get scared and have doubts.
 
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