What is the goal of your sarging

[everywomanshero]

OK normally I am against posting a bunch of theoretical horseshyt that wastes guys time and keeps them at home, but I'm sick and I did go lay a regular last night, so I can get away with it until tomorrow when I get off my ass and go look for more new chicks. Actually, I seduced a nice milf online today and she wanted to meet. I am flaking on her because she's 4 hours away and I feel like ****. For the record, even if you want to be an online seducer you still have to go out and learn how to read chics. Jesus, online seduction is so ****ing easy now that my club game is tight, it's not even fun. This chic gave me the # without asking and kept telling me how I could stay the night and everything would be OK and how I shoulkd help hook her sis up witha n out of town guy yadda yadda yadda. Now, that' I'm done with the self-justification for KBJing here goes:

What the hell is your goal with sarging? I can only think of two possibilities:

1) To get better at social interactions

2) To get laid more or by hotter chics.

Some guys don't understand why I go out sarging and then take off with the first chic I can make out with. My goal at this point is #2, to sleep with many chics. Once the deal is ready to be closed, I don't try to move up anymore. I lost alot of easy lays that way, and my skill set is at a place where I'm comfortable.

If your goal is #1, fine, just make sure it's not an excuse for why you cannot pull. If you roll with me, I'm going to extract when I find something suitable, because I realize now I am in this game to pull ass. I want to **** a new chick pretty often, even though the main reason I go out is just to have fun. If your wingmen do not understand this you might want to evaluate what's really going on. I've had a couple of people become upset when they were left alone. My solution is resolve to pull. I suggest telling onself, "Im gonna pull something before that bastard can leave me here solo".

 

[ethnomethodologist]

At the moment, my purpose for sarging is to anchor good habits into my system.

I spent most of my life playing into the hands of others requests. For a few years now I have been studying, not much field work. I've had enough lays throughout my lifetime, that it is honestly not even among my top 5 desires in life. My field work consists of learning and preparing for the future.

I like to learn from others mistakes as well, so I establish contact with countless people. I enjoy having calm conversations while a raging party surrounds me and a new friend, whether female or male, they are both valuable.

Sarging to me is not always based upon "buying time" I like to extend the comfort, "24 hour guarantee?" There is no bail on your friends time, there is always time to wait for the right moment, ensure yourself, or they are comfortable with you leaving, and nobody is going to have any beefs the next day, just good fun stories.

 

[organizedconfusion]

have a good time, i don't know?.my reasons changed once i started doing it for a while then when i first started. i don't really think about it, i am constantly chopping and changing,what works,what dosen't,why,what did i do wrong and what i did right..i find that if i learn a lesson quickly and it makes an impression- i don't dwell on the issue and i make alot of progess quicker then before,when i would dwell on what went wrong but not really know what was going on or why.i guess my goal is constant progression (?).
you know you're on a different level when you no longer think about the girls and more concerned with performance and how well you do in 'real time' during interacitons...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Definitely to have a good time no matter the outcome. To many people focus on just the goal and miss the experience.