What is the best way to approach a girl you see at school?

[Bigtrucker2008]

Ok, me and some friends were discussing this and I'm asking it here. Ok, let's say theirs a girl you always see at school and she knows you exist also. You think she's cute.

So, what is the best way to approach without seeming lame?

 

[Emotion_sponge]

Ok, me and some friends were discussing this and I'm asking it here. Ok, let's say theirs a girl you always see at school and she knows you exist also. You think she's cute.

So, what is the best way to approach without seeming lame?

in between classes

Just make eye contact, smile.

Ask: "hey whats going on"
her: "nothing much"
you: "What you have next"
her: "Statistics"
you: "dam! Good luck! I'll see you later hopefully"

 

[LostAndConfused]

+2 wolf!

High fives work VERY well in high school. As does kino games. Like play with sensual spots that aren't close to "NO-NO" zones (tits ass and v-zone) such as the feet, knees, and ears if they let you.

 

[Plec07]

Lol I went around randomly giving people Hi-fives for a couple weeks if they said something I liked. Worked well actually, caught them off guard and made them giggle. It caught on and everybody started doing it which is why I stopped.

 

[ExcelNPrevail]

I found out that by just approaching it will all work towards your favor if your not nervous, or just not worried about what she thinks. It will flow when done enought times. Trust me. Other than that read the Bible for info.

 

[trojanman88]

You should approach as soon as you see an opening. In school you should just have that fun guy that likes to play around image. SO if everyone knows you a fun guy walking up and talking to a chick won't be a big deal. And everyone in that group will be eager to vibe with you, as long as you don't make your game to obvious. Like if you go in there, and be smooth and **** she will see that its a pickup in which case she will fight you off. Because women don't like feeling dumb, like they see pick-up artist as people that trick girls into liking them. So she will fight that off cuz she doesn't want to be viewed as dumb or feel like she fell for a trick. SO take it from me and don't make anything seem like a pick up. Go in there and just be the fun happy guy that enjoys busting on them in a super playful way(nothing to harsh), and then IOI every time you bust on them by saying something like "naw you guys are cool", then go for kino like a high five or a hug.

so the pickup routine in highschool is:
1. be super playful and never make it seem like your picking them up or you like them. Your just a fun guy that decided to meet some new people...
2. Give them value in the opening by saying something like " you guys seem cool I had to come and say hi for a second" notice the false time constraint
3. Tease the target " oOh Ooh this girl...she had to be the cutest...hall monitor in middle school" IOI and IOD to tease (notice the pauses)(also this is after they reply to your opening, dont just open and then move into tease before they can say hi)
4. IOI "naw nah...your cool though"
5. Calibrate the IOI with a hug or a high five. (don't over do high fives either)

after that get the **** out of there. Why? cuz in school, if you try to number close the first time you talk you will look like you went in there solely to get her number. I usually don't number close until the second time i talk to them. ANd there is no worries about not seeing the girl again cuz its ****i ng school. In school You can take time with your game, you can do things like make her jealous by opening other chicks with her watching

 

[SinJester]

"Hey I've seen your around school but I've never caught you name"

Works for me.

Problem with HS is that everyone is heading somewhere and you rarely get people on your own. Expand your social circle and it will help. Parties.

Just be friendly, then no one will have a reason NOT to like you. Think to yourself 'I'm going to make them glad that they are talking to me'. People can pick up if your in it for yourself. If you are trying to make the other person feel good everyone ones. I'm not saying try hard to impress, just be cool.

I've never really used hugh fives. Seems kind of... lame? But definately sounds like it works for you guys so that's great. I'm a hugs guy although that doesn't work unless you know them a bit. You could always try:

"Have you ever hugged a stranger"
"No"
"Well them let's try it!"

If you get turned down introduce yourself and shake hands lightly and say"
"Now we are friends"
Then move in for the hug.


Unfortunately for me my close friends actually hinder me doing stuff like this. I know that they will jab sh!it at me. Even though I know it's because they are jealous. So screw them

 

[trojanman88]

"Hey I've seen your around school but I've never caught you name"



"Have you ever hugged a stranger"
"No"
"Well them let's try it!"

i love that line but I don't like it as an opener however im putting it in me repitiore to get kino in day game.. lol keep up the good work and pm me any other snazzy kino getters like this