SmoothSmooth
Master Don Juan
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There is the 'normal world' - where life is about making money, material possessions, how 'good' you are, how responsible you are, your achievements...this is the world that 95% of men pay attention to and that women tolerate
Then there is the 'social world' - a world which women pay attention to and most men tolerate. This is about how you dress, how 'in' you are, how 'popular'/liked you are by randoms, where you went to eat last weekend, who you know, how unique/memorable your look is, how much attention u command with ur body langauge, how good you feel, you get the jist. it is actually a more 'alpha' plane of existence, because u can only play these silly games once ur survival needs are taken care of. most men live a beta existence, toiling around in the 'normal world' whilst women utilise the male resources/protection/provision to play stronger games in the social world.
the social world is constantly recycling and requires daily maintence (new clothes, new looks, new selfies in interesting locations etc)
Let me first say there are two type of women - the top teir and everyone else. The top teir are the ones that most guys on these forums have no access to, but wish they did. These women are constant playing in the 'social world'. In fact, they define it. Most women are paying attention, but they cant compete with the top teir - who have friends everywhere, get invited everywhere, are surrounded by the 'in' crowd etc
An attractive woman (any girl who is an 8+ in looks and age 18-24), will often have a minimum smv requirement interms of looks etc...this is what dating coaches focus on but this means VERY little when it comes to securing the deal. Listen, these women meet physically handsome, wealthy, confidence men EVERY night they go out.
To these girl, your smv is purely down to how 'IN DEMAND' and authentically busy you are. How many people are fighting for your attention? How many exciting options do you have for next Friday? How many people are inviting you out on Saturday? This is the world these women play in.
THIS IS WHY WOMEN ARRANGE DATES ON MEN THEY DONT INTEND ON MEETING. it makes them feel 'more in demand' as it keeps their options open for that night. attractive women over exageratte their social lives, making friends with whoever they can, talking to as many guys are possible, being overly busy going to places they hate...this is all a mask, a mirage, to create a certain level of 'demand'...in the hopes of meeting a man can actually
match that same level of demand. they essentially become the man they hope to date, but they cannot sustain it, because it is fake and build on illusion (fake friends, borrowed money, superficial ties, lack of status etc). however an actual high value man can lead such a lifestyle based on his social status and authentic popularity...
i have tried every method under sun with attractive women, being flirty, being direct etc but the one which consitantly works is acting like i am more in demand than them. replying late, flaking/rearranging on dates, making them wait 1-2 months before the first date, booking last minute holidays and dissapearing, showing how popular i am on social media, talking about restaurants that they havent visited, dressing in the latest designer clothes...basically beating them at their own game...at the social world game
i know guys on this forum will disagree but i guarantee they are not dating the hottest women. they are dating women on a clock (age 25 and above) or women in scarcity (ie below or equal to their smv)
Then there is the 'social world' - a world which women pay attention to and most men tolerate. This is about how you dress, how 'in' you are, how 'popular'/liked you are by randoms, where you went to eat last weekend, who you know, how unique/memorable your look is, how much attention u command with ur body langauge, how good you feel, you get the jist. it is actually a more 'alpha' plane of existence, because u can only play these silly games once ur survival needs are taken care of. most men live a beta existence, toiling around in the 'normal world' whilst women utilise the male resources/protection/provision to play stronger games in the social world.
the social world is constantly recycling and requires daily maintence (new clothes, new looks, new selfies in interesting locations etc)
Let me first say there are two type of women - the top teir and everyone else. The top teir are the ones that most guys on these forums have no access to, but wish they did. These women are constant playing in the 'social world'. In fact, they define it. Most women are paying attention, but they cant compete with the top teir - who have friends everywhere, get invited everywhere, are surrounded by the 'in' crowd etc
An attractive woman (any girl who is an 8+ in looks and age 18-24), will often have a minimum smv requirement interms of looks etc...this is what dating coaches focus on but this means VERY little when it comes to securing the deal. Listen, these women meet physically handsome, wealthy, confidence men EVERY night they go out.
To these girl, your smv is purely down to how 'IN DEMAND' and authentically busy you are. How many people are fighting for your attention? How many exciting options do you have for next Friday? How many people are inviting you out on Saturday? This is the world these women play in.
THIS IS WHY WOMEN ARRANGE DATES ON MEN THEY DONT INTEND ON MEETING. it makes them feel 'more in demand' as it keeps their options open for that night. attractive women over exageratte their social lives, making friends with whoever they can, talking to as many guys are possible, being overly busy going to places they hate...this is all a mask, a mirage, to create a certain level of 'demand'...in the hopes of meeting a man can actually
match that same level of demand. they essentially become the man they hope to date, but they cannot sustain it, because it is fake and build on illusion (fake friends, borrowed money, superficial ties, lack of status etc). however an actual high value man can lead such a lifestyle based on his social status and authentic popularity...
i have tried every method under sun with attractive women, being flirty, being direct etc but the one which consitantly works is acting like i am more in demand than them. replying late, flaking/rearranging on dates, making them wait 1-2 months before the first date, booking last minute holidays and dissapearing, showing how popular i am on social media, talking about restaurants that they havent visited, dressing in the latest designer clothes...basically beating them at their own game...at the social world game
i know guys on this forum will disagree but i guarantee they are not dating the hottest women. they are dating women on a clock (age 25 and above) or women in scarcity (ie below or equal to their smv)
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