"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok if a girl I know has the following traits..what would you call her?

Stays out till 4am consistantly on the weekends and sometimes out late during the week. I mean really..what are you doing at 4am? Bars close at 2am

Has a guy in which you'd call a "FB"...cuz she doesn't consider him a boyfriend. In fact denied they are dating when confronted about it.

Often times hooks up with aforementioned FB on weekends...often going out with the girls, not him...then gets a text message asking to hook up at 2am. Does so. Basically a booty call.

Bartends for extra $$...yet again more time spent in a bar.

Ok I guess if a guy had this behavior we'd be praising him. Obviously I'm one of those guys with a double standard..its ok for the guy but...

Is she normal? a w***e? a drunk?

Just askin..thanks guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont know from what you describe to me and my little brain I would say

HER: SLVT

But then again that is in the eye of the beholder...if you havent fvcked her and love this chick then I feel sorry for you because she probably gets pounded like a drum (sorry for the pun but still).d
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'll bet the b*tch is as fun as can be (probably a cluster B with all kinda issues, and an awesome f*ck), and the OP won't get to enjoy her at ALL, because he's all wrapped up in figuring her out, and getting "close" to her, and "understanding" her.

Hey.... OP... just hit on her, and don't get attached, and have fun. She is.

Jeez.
 
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Yeah sounds like a person enjoying life to me.. can't fault her for that!
 
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Aliasguy is right.

BTW, look up posts here on Cluster B to know for sure if thats what you're dealing with or not for sure.

Even if she's not a Cluster B she's definitely not a candidate for anything more than a fvck or two or three out of you.

So to sum up use her for sex as long as you can and don't try and figure her out since she's not relationship material anyway.
 
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haha no one-itis here...just trying to figure this girl out. She seems like fun but also seems like a nice girl as well. Then has this wild side. She's shown interest but at this point in my life I'm looking for a potential girlfriend and not this other stuff. Yeah its fun for a while but ultimately like you guys said its not worth it way down the road.
 
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lol she s probably been probed anally by everything from catholic preist to space aliens
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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