if you have a good characteristic it can make up for a bad one. i was at the bar, on a saturday, these dudes with friggin suits were in there. who goes clubbin with suits on a saturday? guys trying to impress girls and i'm sure they can see right through it. this guy was wearing a suit and like 5 foot 3, skinny. the girls didn't even acknowledge him as they walked by and he tried to get their attention. one of these girls walked right up to me and started talking to me about my college jacket i was wearing. i'm 6 foot 3 and to be honest with you i don't think being tall is all that big a deal, it doesn't land you the babes. but maybe the reason they ignored him and talked to me was because of my height, i don't know, the only way to tell is ask a woman. i also think it can help if you go to the bar alone, it's easier for girls to approach you if you're not in a circle of friends giving them attention and look more easy to approach.
i got ignored after i graduated high school, i took it for granted girls liked me but i let myself go, i realized i need to get rid of the glasses, and get acne medicine (tetracycline antibiotics), plus work out, i already have a huge boost in my confidence because i have done these 3 things and girls treat me differently because i'm not kissing their ass anymore. because there is this one girl who is an all out player who i used to be an afc around, i stopped, i talked down to her and now the roles are reversed, not that anything is happening between us, but it's nice.
