"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what is maturity? and how do i become mature

guayaballer

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most girls tell me im not mature enough that i cant be serious. i cant help it it feels like i can make a joke ot of anything and make girls laugh easily. im not sure how to be mature or what it is for that matter like whats an example of a mature conversation because bein funny alone just makes them think of me as a funny friend and any attraction in da beggining they have for me is gone after a while and im just the funny guy guaranteed to make u laff. but thats basically everyone at my school funny and does kino i think that if i can become mature and mix in fun and laughters i can be much more succesful then any other uy at me school any help is greatly apreciated
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the fact that you posted a thread on this means you are not mature.

grow the fcuk up

seriously though, if a girl tells you that and she's dating you, it means she wants a relationship. and if you're not dating her, then it still means she wants a relationship with you...she's picturing you in that role.

don't listen to her.

i used to hang out with a chick once who pulled that 'can't you be serious' line on me. it went nowhere fast.

maturity means you are responsible and take care of your own sh!t. don't listen to women they don't know sh!t.

fyi, most adults are NOT mature
 

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thank you for the advice but i guess i want to be mature for myself also because i dunt want to be just known as the funny guy their is enough of those i want have matur conversations but i dont knopw how to be mature or where to start.
 

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some girls like funny guys.. some like mature guys..that really depends on the girls part..but obviously there must be balance in bettween two..why dont you try to be bad, funny and mature simultaneously:) this is gonna work..
 
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