The Decay of Meaning
Don Juan
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A couple of situations. I am not just asking this because I want to hook up with a cool girl, but also because I want to be comfortable at school and now there are a lot of things I don't understand.
1. I attend second grade in the high school in the country I live in. New people have started in first grade as a new school year has begun.
Immediately practically all these girls have taken an interest in me (for good or bad). A lot of them though, I am not sure what they are thinking, if they are laughing behind my back or find me attractive. Some of these groups of girls look at me, and I look back at them, either smile or look at them weird or just stare back and the girls crack up and laugh and turn their face away, often crack up so much that their heads end in the chest of their girl friends. Then they try to look at me again and I stare back or smile then they crack up even harder.
What is this supposed to mean? Since largely the girls in my class the previous year pretty much backstabbed me and talked behind my back and acted like *****es (which was I guess 60 percent my fault but that's not the point here), I am weary of girls laughing and stuff.
I actually said to some of the girls: "Either you are cracking up because I am incredibly stupid or incredibly handsome". Then one of the girls played and brushed my hair, which I assume is a confirmation of the latter or to lighten up.
But I mean all of the girls that go in groups crack up when they see me. Some give me flirtatious looks or sometimes talk in a flirting manner. And funnily enough sometimes there is ONE girl in the group that looks at me in a weird, slightly or angry way.
2. With other group of girls it's like we have this game. We call each other names and make faces at each other and stuff.
And another group and a girl in particular, it basically goes like this "Hi ---my name", "Hi ---her name---" and then we laugh and it's fun and we say it every time we meet, even if it was just 5 minutes ago.
On what level is this? Do they want me to initiate contact or..?
I may be a bit paranoid. However, I'd hate to talk to girls who would talk **** about me behind my back and I don't want to waste my time on such girls, so clearing this up would be really cool and would make things a bit more comfortable at school!
So what is happening here?
1. I attend second grade in the high school in the country I live in. New people have started in first grade as a new school year has begun.
Immediately practically all these girls have taken an interest in me (for good or bad). A lot of them though, I am not sure what they are thinking, if they are laughing behind my back or find me attractive. Some of these groups of girls look at me, and I look back at them, either smile or look at them weird or just stare back and the girls crack up and laugh and turn their face away, often crack up so much that their heads end in the chest of their girl friends. Then they try to look at me again and I stare back or smile then they crack up even harder.
What is this supposed to mean? Since largely the girls in my class the previous year pretty much backstabbed me and talked behind my back and acted like *****es (which was I guess 60 percent my fault but that's not the point here), I am weary of girls laughing and stuff.
I actually said to some of the girls: "Either you are cracking up because I am incredibly stupid or incredibly handsome". Then one of the girls played and brushed my hair, which I assume is a confirmation of the latter or to lighten up.
But I mean all of the girls that go in groups crack up when they see me. Some give me flirtatious looks or sometimes talk in a flirting manner. And funnily enough sometimes there is ONE girl in the group that looks at me in a weird, slightly or angry way.
2. With other group of girls it's like we have this game. We call each other names and make faces at each other and stuff.
And another group and a girl in particular, it basically goes like this "Hi ---my name", "Hi ---her name---" and then we laugh and it's fun and we say it every time we meet, even if it was just 5 minutes ago.
On what level is this? Do they want me to initiate contact or..?
I may be a bit paranoid. However, I'd hate to talk to girls who would talk **** about me behind my back and I don't want to waste my time on such girls, so clearing this up would be really cool and would make things a bit more comfortable at school!
So what is happening here?