"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what is going on in that issue of mine.. (how selfish I am heheh)

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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So I´m doing my job. Keeping her around and with my eyes open to chick opportunities. No one new yet, but I already have some ideas.

Yesterday she keept on pushing me to give her an engagement ring.

:confused:

me: What the hell, you keep pushing me with this compromise thing, and you cant remember what you just have done?? You cheated on me..
she: You are right,, I cant push you, I cant charge you anything.

what the hell ... this sucks.

I want a new life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten

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Originally posted by GREAT WHITE SHARK
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You cheated on me..

what the hell ... this sucks.
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yes, wtf? why are you still with her if she cheated on you?

dude! once a cheater.....
 

Desdinova

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I want a new life.
Then go for what you want. Kick her out of your life and begin a new one.

Yesterday she keept on pushing me to give her an engagement ring.
She sounds incredibly needy. She already got revenge on you to try and force you to commit. Now she's trying desperate measures to force you to commit. Don't be surprised if she gets YOU an engagement ring.
 
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