"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What is Better?

Jamal

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What is better...having a girlfriend that is from 1 to 10, a 6 or 7, or having no girlfriend but trying to flirt with 9s and 10s
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SinJester

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Pointless question, everyone has their own beliefs, values and opinions. There is not right way. Just do what you want.

I simply could not have a girlfriend that I'm not attracted to, if I am attracted to her that's it, no 1-10 rating neccesary.

So a girlfriend I'm not attracted to vs 'trying' to 'flirt' with '9-10's. I would definately choose to be single. A cool girlfriend I'm attracted to vs whatever, I would take the girlfriend.
 
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