What in the hay is going on?

[The Master Disaster]

I'm really confused. First off, I'm no George Clooney or Paul Walker, but I got contacts 2 weeks ago. Since I've gotten them, every girl seems to be looking at me in that certain way. They start small talk and stuff where you know there interested. It's been something that's been making me think lately, but today when I was at the airport it just reached something that I have just come to the opinion that I can't figure this out.

I was waiting for my plane. I was an hour early for my plane. Just sitting and waiting not many people around. When I say not many people I mean like 3 people in 8 rows. So I'm reading, and I notice a pretty damn good looking woman decided to sit next to me, but it wasn't like 3 or 4 seats down it was right across me. She didn't have a book or anything she just played with her hair and every time I looked up she would look in that direction. So I'm like ok whatever. Then about 10 minutes later. Another pretty good looking woman sat a seat away from me. Then another and another. Sure enough there were 4 or 5 good looking women all around me. Starting small chat and playing with there hair. I looked around and there was still no one around.

First day I got contacts and went to class. I think 7 women in that class noticed. One girl was like "Did you get contacts?" "Yea" She grabs my arm and gets real close and just stares at my eyes for 5-10 seconds "Yep, there they are."

What the hell, I'm not that good looking. It happens to me in class all the time too. Like Monday, I had to work in a group in French. So I get 3 women in my group. I move there then we sit 4 seats in a row. I'm in the middle, but the girl on the far right decides she wants to write on my desk and give me a clear view of her cleavage. Then girl on my left and right scooched all the way over to my desk for no reason. On top of that, they lean into me and start touching me, and I could say the lamest joke and they'd all giggle and they'd touch my shoulders.

It's happening in all my classes. Girls who I know are interested in me. It's just confusing because when I wore glasses. It wasn't like this.

Another thing, since I got contacts women can't hold eye contact. They last about 5 seconds and then they look away and smile.

I'm SO CONFUSED. I'm not that good looking. It started off with. It must just be in my head. Then it turned into well it must be this one girl.

Now it feels like I can't figure anything out. Today, in the airport I was just like... why are 5 good looking women sitting so close to me and starting chats about what time it is when there is a clock not even 5 feet away.

I guess on Wednesday. I knew these two girls were attracted to me. So I decided to test them. I remember reading something in High School. If a girl likes you, they'll copy you. You start texting. They'll bring out their phones. So they stood next to me. I folded my arms sure enough not a minute later this one girl folded her arms. I acted like I got a text. She busts out her phone. I just did like 2 or 3 other things. It was just like... what the hell is this copy cat day.

I personally think I'm maybe a 5 or 6 out of 10, but my personality is like an easy 10. I dress ok, but it's not like I should be a model. I dress casual everyday.

In the past, a girl got to know me. We'd go out, but I'd never get them on first impression.

Does anyone make anything of this? Coincidence? I mean they're just contacts. It's not like I got a new beautiful face. I just took off my glasses.

Don't take this as a thread like something magical happened. I hate those threads. It's more of a thread about why is this happening to me. I didn't change. I'm still the same guy minus glasses I was 3 weeks ago. I just can't put this into terms that I can understand. In my mind, I'm just a semi-attractive guy. There are a lot better looking men out there. Personally, I hate the way I look without glasses probably because I'm not use to it. I'm just flustered. Today, on the plane just was like there is something going on, and I don't understand.

 

[HandyAndy]

dude my looks got alot better once i took my dorky ass glasses off, maybe you dont notice it but the girls do

 

[The Master Disaster]

dude my looks got alot better once i took my dorky ass glasses off, maybe you dont notice it but the girls do

But women are acting like Brad Pitt decided to show up to class. I'm in college so it's not like there is a small pool. There is a good 10,000 people on campus about 4,000 are men. 3,000 probably the same age as me.

The third day I got contacts, I forgot my book in the class. One of the girls that was near me like she found your book (BTW this girl seems to start a conversation every day I go to class. I like conversation don't get me wrong, but she makes some of the oddest, most awkward conversations. Like today she was talking to me to see if I saw something on Channel 31 where these 4 transgendered people. She went on for like 7 minutes. I acted mildly interested and kind of did a lot of "Oh Wow's" and "Uhuh" hoping she would end it soon. This sure is not what I was expecting to discuss when I go to biology.), but back to the story I didn't even know I forgot my book. I go up there and just ask her about the book. I think I said "I forgot my book, and she said you found it (kind of unsure if it was true)" She can't hold eye contact and couldn't speak. She was muttering and stuttering and about 2 minutes go by and she finally just points. At one point, she even put two hands together and made a book shape. I'm like ok thanks.

I don't know. I may just be linking sequences that shouldn't be linked, but i've never run into half these situations before. I can point out 5 guys better looking in all of my classes except one because there are 10 people in it, and I'm the only guy under 30, but it's just odd.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Lucky bastard. I wear contacts and girls never talk to me. Maybe I should try wearing my glasses from now on

I go to lab early in the morning. I wear glasses because it's an ungodly hour in the morning. Let alone put a finger at my eye when I can't even tell if I'm awake or not. So I go to lab. This one kind of cute girl I catch looking at me in class all the time. She's also in another one of my classes. She came up to me and was like "Your wearing glasses, but you don't in class, Why?" I tell her why and she was like "Oh, haha!" I'm just like she sure seems interested in my eye issues.

 

[HandyAndy]

maybe you arnt as ugly as you think?

 

[The Master Disaster]

maybe you arnt as ugly as you think?

I doubt it. I'm not one of the guys who walks out of the room and all the girls turn to each other and talk about how cute that guy was although I've been in those rooms, and they weren't talking to me.

I'm an average guy with a great personality to make up for meh looks.

 

[HandyAndy]

Well confidence is key. Maybe theyre attracted to your body language/confidence

 

[The Master Disaster]

Well confidence is key. Maybe theyre attracted to your body language/confidence

It's a possibility. I put forth a confident/cool emotions. I'm pretty smooth, but I slip up. I'm only human.

I was on Xbox Live, and I apparently sound black. I was playing gears and I was like "haha... because I'm white." I swear there was a long silence, and about 4 or 5 friends were like "Your not black...?" Sorry that was a side note, but pretty funny one.

Anyways, I was facinated by how many people lot I was black. I heard this girl was on, and I was like do I sound black? She thought about it a little knew I was white, and she was like, "Not so much black... but more confident." I laughed, and like "go on..." She was like, "You just sound know what you want."

So maybe.