What if you're depressed?

[Rhino22]

Ok, I have been told by alot people that I am very attractive, nice, etc. I even banged this hot girl a week ago and all she could talk about was how big my ***k was and how hot I am. Don't get me wrong...it felt good at the time and it might have even boosted my ego a bit, but I fell back down the spiral after that. She isn't gf material though, so I'm not with her or anything. I did get out of a 4 year relationship in June where my ex really screwed me over...lied, cheated, etc. I think I'm depressed from it because she did contact me a few days ago. I walk around sometimes and I see this very hot girls checking me out but I don't do anything about it. It's like I don't wanna let anyone in at all.

I'm now talking to this very cute girl online and I think we have TONS in common but for some reason I don't even feel like calling her. She just sent me a message tonight saying, "What's wrong with the girls over there? You're way too cute and nice to be single." I don't know what's wrong with me right now and how to make it go away. Any suggestions?

 

[sketchy]

Seems like you are still thinking about your Ex too much. When you do, remember the bad times, and how you felt at the time, that will help you not think about her, hence taking you out of depression mode. Meeting new girls is a nice way out of that type of depression.

 

[Rhino22]

So, do you think I should just try to hide it and get with other girls anyway? It's very hard for me, because I'm sure I probably come off as depressed. I know nobody wants to be around that...

Yeah, that is a good idea about thinking about the bad times.

 

[sketchy]

its not about hiding it, you gotta get over it so you don't need to hide it. try talking to other chicks and see if it helps you out in the depression department, if not you need to take some time for yourself, you def need to move on.