"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What if we leave this section without control?

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BeDJ

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Moderators represent authority on boards, regardless if most members are grown-ass men. There are ways to exert authority without coming off as a bully. The only time I had to deal with a Moderator on here, he AMOG'd the sh!t out of me, in a respectful manner. That mod has been around for a while, I'm sure it was trial and error for him as it is for us beginning Don Juans.

I'm sure you can flame each other, but when a Mod is involved, there is going to be censorship. That censorship is much needed to protect the image of the authoritative figures and the merit of the SoSuave Forum. However, it's the Mods' responsibility to not allow the argument/discussion reach that point of censorship - even if it means to take the hit to the ego and walk away from the topic in hand.

Anon said:
Are you always b1tching and crying? Seriously??

Get the fvck out of here.
Imagine if that was said to a Mod.
This is taken from a thread that is still open.



Off topic,

I agree with P&V regarding your situation, PPRF. Stay positive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VikingKing

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"I thank, we all thank the bags were a good idea. So this time, no bags, but next time full regalia!"

"But this is is a raid goddamn it!", "But no one can see.", "So?!" "well it would be nice to see."

"I can't see, you can't see, all that matter is can the horse see!"
 

Peaks&Valleys

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SocialLeper said:
However blaming yourself for every instance that a girl cheats on you, as rare as they might be is a slippery slope friend. Some girls are just straight up h*es.
You're right about that. But hopefully, you can pick up on red flags and weed those ones out before you get into an exclusive relationship with those types.

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Not sure where this thing about cheating and your philosophy is coming from but if you want to talk about me, pm me. Your first pm should probably explain the contradiction between your last two sentences.
I'm talking to you Pairs. I don't mind doing it here, PM me if you'd like. Also, I don't see the contradiction. Care to explain it?

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
The scope of this thread is mods editing posts.
Yeah, well I derailed the thread. Danger said he was done talking earlier, then he got talking again, what do you know.
 

AAAgent

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Social_Leper said:
Off topic, but I'm probably closer to your camp Peaks in that I've never been one to obsess about what a gf or other plate is doing when I'm not around.

Nor have I been one to pay any mind to girl's nights out, which seem to be seen as massive red flags on SS.

Be confident enough in yourself to know that your chick won't feel like cheating.

And if she's going to cheat, she'll find any way. Pointless to worry.

However blaming yourself for every instance that a girl cheats on you, as rare as they might be is a slippery slope friend. Some girls are just straight up h*es.
I agree with peaks that it is the mans fault. Women are reactive. They react to how you act and treat them. If your girl ends up cheating on you, it's either your fault for not handling your sh1t properly or you just have poor judgement of character and chose to date a h0e.
 
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