Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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what if they avoid eye contact? and some other stuff

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hey i'm 20 yrs old from texas 5'9 185. i've been readin your DJ Bible and the sosuave tips and they have all helped, but being a newcomer I've just tried to work on one aspect at a time. The first aspect is the eye contact. Now this is a problem because eye contact is the first part to an approach, but I can never establish it. I try to establish eye contact so that i can smile and proceed from there, but i tried it on 10 girls today, and out of 10 girls i tried to look in the eye, 0 looked back, or if they did they looked away quickly. How can I make sure I establish eye contact with a girl thats my first concern.

Another concern is that I don't know what to do about hanging out with my best friend. I'm 5'9 he's 6'4 we both hit the weights but of course he's taller so girls are gonna look at him first. What can I do physically to give myself more of a chance that the girls will look at me!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well there has to be some reason they look away.. you got a picture of yourself? Maybe it's something about the way you look!
 

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well....i'm black and i mean i'm dark skinned but not super black i'm pretty good lookin got a short clean cut haircut i had braces so my teeth are straight and no pimples. but ANYWAYS even if i was ugly there would be nothing i could do about that the whole don juan theory would be pointless and i would therefore be doomed because i've improved everything i can i.e. face, teeth, hair, clothing, fitness...so yea some real advice plz
 

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Ahh, I'm no DJ so I couldn't tell ya bro.. So I'll leave it to the people more experienced than me... But you makin eye contact with white girls or other black chicks?

Because if a black chick or Indian chick or Asian made eye contact I would look away because I'm not into those types...

Not that I'm racist! I've got a lot of awesome black, and Asian friends! But it's just not what I dig in a chick...

I know a couple hot chicks that are really into black guys.. and a couple hot chicks that aren't!

Hopefully you find the ones that are! hehe..

Good luck bro!
 
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