"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what hobbies do you all have?
- Thread starter moneyisking
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LiveFreeX
Banned
Science Fiction movies including Star Trek, Star Wars, Doctor Who and Aliens. Working on an RPG for the ESL classroom about Space Bunnies. Sometimes go and breakdance at 1912 here in Nanjing... listen to trance, dance and house. Take Chinese class once a week with the other teachers who are getting pvssy like you can't even imagine.
I do nothing to impress women and could care less if they like my hobbies or not, I leave that to the Starbucks drinkers.
Have more women than I can possibly handle... only want my girlfriend (22 y/o) but have women come on to me everyday. Have sex about 3 times a week... that usually wipes me out.
The only thing I lift is myself out of bed in the morning.
If you havent noticed, I'm bragging!
Chinese women rule!
LiveFreeX
Banned
I also compete in karate tournaments, altho I am getting too old for the "no-contact" stuff. It's too hard on the knees and elbows, to be "pulling' my blows and kicks all the time. With full protective gear on both men, tho, you can let it (nearly) all hang out and learn a lot about what works and why.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.