What High School is all about!
I’m sat here watching scrub’s on a day off, and as stupid as this may seem, it’s made me realise something. In this episode of scrubs, colin farrell tells JD and turk basically that they shouldnt be wasting their free time doing nothing and to get out and to have fun!
This got me thinking about my time in college, thinking about the people ive met, what theyve been like and its made me realise, even though school/college whatever, the main purpose is to learn DONT FORGET THAT, its about developing other skills as well. Most nerds are scared sh1tless of failure, thats why they study hard, have no balls and end up coming out with low self esteem, no confidence, no life experiences etc.
What i’m getting at is, this should be the best time of your life!!!!!!!
EMBRACE IT
Go out, have fun, live your life, do what you want to do, get the grades. Dont worry, if you get a balance of both studying and fun, you will go further in life than anyone else in life. Dont be scared, before you know it you will be 30 with debts to pay off sitting at home on your own a miserable bachelor if you dont. grab your balls RIGHT NOW give them a tug and get out there. You have no excuse, stop avoiding the real problem which is that you are scared, we all are, but its your life, go out and live it, I can tell you, your parents can tell you, your friends can tell you, but at the end of the day, its up to you!
You see a lot of people wasting there time in school and college, a complete waste, think about all the people you meet, its your playground for experience, if you mess up, so what, your in the same place you started off at! Anything social wise in high school is not the be all and end all of everything, so dont treat it like it is. As long as you dont fail in your studies, you have done nothing wrong, any experience is good experience as long as you gain a lesson from it. Dont try and be perfect, cause the more you think you are, the bigger the blow is when you fall.
Ok so i’ve told you all this but ive given you no ammunition to go out into the battlefield with
• Respect yourself and others will respect you
• Relax your body and do everything a tad slower
• Throw your shoulders back
• Dress well, keep up with fashion, mix ultra-masculine and slightly feminine features into your style. PM me for more specific advice
• Keep yourself well trimmed, style your hair, if you can pull off a slap head DO IT
• Make sure your well presented, clean, no spots neat eyebrows, clean fingernails, you know the script.
• Get tanned, fake tan, sunbeds w.e sounds gay but looks good
• Speak slowly and confidently
• Dont be afraid to spark up a conversation, find something to start up a conversation with, then take it from there
• Be BOLD, daring and the rest of it, have your own style dont be a sheep
• Have lots of different things going on like, Sports, Homework dont be available all the time.
• Become one of the coolest kids on campus by making friends, introducing them to each other, getting them all together and then making them friend
To finish, dont expect this all to happen at once because it wont. Take it step by step and eventually you will get there, there is no magic pill for this
I’m sat here watching scrub’s on a day off, and as stupid as this may seem, it’s made me realise something. In this episode of scrubs, colin farrell tells JD and turk basically that they shouldnt be wasting their free time doing nothing and to get out and to have fun!
This got me thinking about my time in college, thinking about the people ive met, what theyve been like and its made me realise, even though school/college whatever, the main purpose is to learn DONT FORGET THAT, its about developing other skills as well. Most nerds are scared sh1tless of failure, thats why they study hard, have no balls and end up coming out with low self esteem, no confidence, no life experiences etc.
What i’m getting at is, this should be the best time of your life!!!!!!!
EMBRACE IT
Go out, have fun, live your life, do what you want to do, get the grades. Dont worry, if you get a balance of both studying and fun, you will go further in life than anyone else in life. Dont be scared, before you know it you will be 30 with debts to pay off sitting at home on your own a miserable bachelor if you dont. grab your balls RIGHT NOW give them a tug and get out there. You have no excuse, stop avoiding the real problem which is that you are scared, we all are, but its your life, go out and live it, I can tell you, your parents can tell you, your friends can tell you, but at the end of the day, its up to you!
You see a lot of people wasting there time in school and college, a complete waste, think about all the people you meet, its your playground for experience, if you mess up, so what, your in the same place you started off at! Anything social wise in high school is not the be all and end all of everything, so dont treat it like it is. As long as you dont fail in your studies, you have done nothing wrong, any experience is good experience as long as you gain a lesson from it. Dont try and be perfect, cause the more you think you are, the bigger the blow is when you fall.
Ok so i’ve told you all this but ive given you no ammunition to go out into the battlefield with
• Respect yourself and others will respect you
• Relax your body and do everything a tad slower
• Throw your shoulders back
• Dress well, keep up with fashion, mix ultra-masculine and slightly feminine features into your style. PM me for more specific advice
• Keep yourself well trimmed, style your hair, if you can pull off a slap head DO IT
• Make sure your well presented, clean, no spots neat eyebrows, clean fingernails, you know the script.
• Get tanned, fake tan, sunbeds w.e sounds gay but looks good
• Speak slowly and confidently
• Dont be afraid to spark up a conversation, find something to start up a conversation with, then take it from there
• Be BOLD, daring and the rest of it, have your own style dont be a sheep
• Have lots of different things going on like, Sports, Homework dont be available all the time.
• Become one of the coolest kids on campus by making friends, introducing them to each other, getting them all together and then making them friend
To finish, dont expect this all to happen at once because it wont. Take it step by step and eventually you will get there, there is no magic pill for this