“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What have you learnt in 2015

Bingo-Player

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Well gentlemen we are just over half way through another year of our lifes

And i thought it would be good to share what we’ve learnt or accomplished with women so far

I’ve had some weird encounters with women this year a lot weirder than i usually have ,

granted i have had some worrying financial issues and a few bouts of depression which i know has tainted my game but I’ve battled on and still managed to pull some really beautiful women despite my setbacks which makes me realise how much damage im going to be able to do when I’m firing on all cylinders again

anyway on to what ive learnt this year

1) When it comes to women Dominance and leadership overrules EVERYTHING women are biologically programmed to respond well to being told what to do if youve got a good vibe with her and you can project enough confidence through your voice and tell her something like “take your clothes off now” her pu$$y will start tingling

2) Use ****y funny sparingly some pickup artists preach to hit her with as much ****y funny as you possibly can a majority of girls don’t like it .....whilst its important to make her laugh, too much arrogance and too much nit picking will turn her off very quickly

3) Don’t be “nice” or “bad” but be yourself ........dont bend over backwards to find things in common with her, these days i will bring a subject up that actually interests me and if she responds well then il use that to start up a vibe between us ( this works really well in social circles)


4) It’s ok for her to see other women wanting you but its not ok for her to see you wanting other women (this is very very important so read this until you understand it)

5) Nothing turns a woman off faster than a desperate man i don’t care if you haven’t had sex in 6 days, 6 weeks , 6 months or 6 years you have too keep your composure , ive learnt this lesson the hard way and I’ve done some extreme damage to my image by portraying myself like dog on heat especially after alcohol

(Im not sure damage caused by coming off as desperate is ever repairable , but im looking into it at the moment and il go further into rebuilding an image in a month or so when i know if its at all possible or not)

6) If your having a bad spell in life pull back from women if your feeling low on energy or whatever chasing them is a fool’s errand take a couple weeks off , chill out get your head back in the game and then start again nobody is capable of being a cassanova 24 hours a day 7 days week sometimes a little time off the grid can do you the world of good


7) Alcohol can be your both your biggest advantage and biggest disadvantage when dealing with chicks if you drink too much and lose control you can forget about getting any ( again another lesson learnt the hard way)



Im sure ive got some more but this post is dragging on and i feel i should let some others tell us what theyve learnt this year
 

badboyjmm

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Good post,

Point #6 hits home. I'm definitely feeling a lot better going to the gym, taking care of my life and not taking girls seriously.

Sometimes we are way too caught up trying to seek girls and have fun with them that it's not fun anymore.

So things that I've learn so far: Your aura, energy (inner-game) is very important. It's the difference between having a fun time and a bad time. It's light and day. Make sure to be positive and try to eliminate source of negative energy.

Another thing, sticking to principles (i.e: 2 strike rule)
When things are not going great with me with girls, I tend to send messages to girls that have disappeared of the radar. Nothing comes out of it. So if I don't hear from a girl in 2 weeks, I delete the phone number and remove the connection to social media.
 

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The things you did to pick up women when you were 18, will not have the same affect when you hit 25. Learn to evolve your game based on what your looking for.
 

thunder_god

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1. Learn to be more physically aggressive with women ie. touch them more often, go for the kiss even if your not sure, etc
2. You only get 1 chance with a girl most of the time. Don't **** it up!
3. Learn to lead
4. Discovered the blueprint on how to become a millionaire and escape the rat rack a few days ago
5. Always put yourself first
6. Other people who are jealous of your success or you taking action to improve your chances with women will always try to put you down and shame you, don't listen to any of these a$$holes!
7. After travelling for a bit, learned girls in Toronto are stuck up *****es and big time *****s with egos the size of the whole continent.
 

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A few notes on things that I've come to realise or at least had reaffirmed.

-I truly have a lot of work to do, especially regenerating my social life and probably starting to think about developing a new career path.
-You can fail doing something you hate, so you might as well try doing something you really love.
-Emotive reactions are largely useless in most personal and professional scenarios. I will start plowing my emotion in to my sport and other hobbies.
-I need to develop long term will-power, which is probably my greatest weakness.
-Online dating is largely a waste of time today.
-You attention, like your time, money effort and the rest of your personal commodities, is best saved for those who earn and reciprocate it.
-What a woman said yesterday, last week, last year, even half an hour ago, does not necessarily still stand right at this moment.
-A large majority of adults are just over-grown children and are unlikely to ever grow up.
-The only way to breed respect from others is to truly respect yourself.
-Communicate dissatisfaction through actions rather than words.
-The two-strike rule is just fine. Most people don't deserve more.
-Corey Wayne knows men and women.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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