"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What have I done to this girl?

MainDroite

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Okay, so, to make a long story short, I take the bus from Ottawa to Montreal, where I sit beside this hot middle eastern chick. She seems to be having trouble finding the right position to sleep, so once she opens her eyes and catches mine, I just tell her "You can cuddle if you think you're gonna be more comfortable": to my surprise, she actually did. So I passed my arm around her shoulder and I ran my hand through her nice, black hair.

We talked for the rest of the ride. At some point, I asked her if she liked movies. Yes, she answered, but I don't go out to see them.

"So that basically means you won't go out on a date with me to the cinema?", I asked. She brushed it off quickly with a laugh.

Later on, I ask for her phone number, but she said she "did not remember it" (....sounds fishy, doesn't it?). She did ask for mine, though, and I gave it to her. She asked me to write her a little something along with it.

As soon as we arrived, she got out of the bus and she literally ran without saying goodbye. So here I am, nexting the girl in my mind, and telling you guys about it. I already forgot the idea of receiving a phone call from her... I just want to have a clue as to what happened, why she reacted this way and why the hell not being interested in someone means not applying proper etiquette and not saying bye when you're leaving?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jawbreaker73

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you shudnt have given her your number..when she askd for yours you shudve responded ''i forgot mine as well'' and askd for email instead..if she still resisted she is in a relationship/not into dating/lesbian/xyz and not worth wasting energy
 

LoneWolf

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she ran off because she wasn't interested. think about it, if you're interested in a girl and are talking on the bus etc.. would you just run out of the bus and not say bye? you would of stayed and made sure you set up a date lol. she knew you were into her and ran off before you could try anymore moves.
 
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